Comments on: Should I Try To Get Him Back? http://askgirlshrink.girlshrink.com/should-i-try-to-get-him-back/ Free Relationship Advice by Lisa Angelettie MSW Thu, 08 Dec 2011 05:53:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: MLKing http://askgirlshrink.girlshrink.com/should-i-try-to-get-him-back/comment-page-1/#comment-77 MLKing Fri, 30 Apr 2010 11:29:33 +0000 http://askgirlshrink.girlshrink.com/?p=266#comment-77 GirlShrink...spot on! Very few guys will put up with this kind of drama. Guys will do a lot for sex (yes, I said sex) but there are too many other fine women in the World to go through these hoops just for a roll between the sheets. I wonder about LongDistanceGirl's role models--have her parents or siblings modeled this kind of love/hate/miss/love/hate kind of relationship? Have you also terminated friendships the same way? And what's 7 months? To an 18 year old it seems like a long time. To a 30 year old it's far more acceptable. Crying is expected from someone with few relationships under their belt, instense (but seldom) reunions and an emotionally quick temper. LongDistanceGirl, if you want to move on and deal with things in a more healthy way then date more people, look to people whose relationship skills foster the kind of relationship you dream of, and start being a duck and let the water (the hurtful things) roll of your back instead of getting angry and terminating your relationships. Remember the Golden Rule...treat others like you yourself want to be treated. That's good advice for friendships and essential advice for relationships. GirlShrink…spot on! Very few guys will put up with this kind of drama. Guys will do a lot for sex (yes, I said sex) but there are too many other fine women in the World to go through these hoops just for a roll between the sheets.

I wonder about LongDistanceGirl’s role models–have her parents or siblings modeled this kind of love/hate/miss/love/hate kind of relationship? Have you also terminated friendships the same way?

And what’s 7 months? To an 18 year old it seems like a long time. To a 30 year old it’s far more acceptable. Crying is expected from someone with few relationships under their belt, instense (but seldom) reunions and an emotionally quick temper.

LongDistanceGirl, if you want to move on and deal with things in a more healthy way then date more people, look to people whose relationship skills foster the kind of relationship you dream of, and start being a duck and let the water (the hurtful things) roll of your back instead of getting angry and terminating your relationships.

Remember the Golden Rule…treat others like you yourself want to be treated. That’s good advice for friendships and essential advice for relationships.

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