Not sure what to say!

by Lisa Angelettie MSW

in Relationship Advice

Dear GirlShrink,

Hi there! I really appreciate you taking the time to read this!

Ok so, at the end of the last school year, at the Country Ball, my crush asked me to dance with him. It was so sweet. He was shy, held my hand, brought me to the dance floor, and we were very close while dancing. He also told me I smelled good. Then, we didn’t really see each other afterwards. We were both really busy, and since all our activities were done, we didnt cross paths at school. Usually we are on the student council together, sport teams, etc. Then, the day after school was over, at the grade 12 prom, I was volunteering and he was the pianist. His parents are teachers so he had to stay late, as did I to clean up. While I was waiting for my parents, he came and said hi, we chatted for a while, then they arrived so I left. This year, I constantly find him staring at me. His locker is right behind mine, we are on the student council together, his best-friends are my close friends, we play the same sports (but not team, hes on the guys team, im on the girls team, lol)… So you can see that there are many opportunities for me to talk to him and I see him alote. And i’m not really shy. We are good friends. I think he’s into me but just a little shy. How do I tell him that YES, I like him, sort of thing. Should I tell him I enjoyed the ball last year (even if its been a while). When and where should I tell him ? what should I tell him ? Should I even tell him ? LOL

I need some advice, ANY advice would do! Please and thank you! God Bless.

Needs Words.

Dear Needs Words,

I think this one is a no brainer. This guy likes you, but he just needs you to step up. I think you need to ask him to do something that you usually don’t do. If he wants to study together. If he wants to help you with a student council event/planning over your house. Figure out a way to get some time with that does not include being surrounded by all your friends and I”m sure that everything will fall into place. Good luck!

 

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