Dear GirlShrink,
My boyfriend won’t spend the night. What’s going on? Sometimes he’ll come over late, and we’ll hook up. He may even fall asleep, but he always wakes up and leaves at three or four in the morning.
We have been seeing each other for a month now, and he has spent the night a few times. I need to know how to go about approaching him with the subject without pushing him away. Any advice would be much appreciated!
- Molly, Annapolis, MD
Dear Molly,
Well there are a few theories here. 1. Either he has someone else to get back home to or for and he can never stay until the morning. 2. He is afraid of serious commitment, so he leaves. 3. You are a for lack of a better term, a “booty call” and that’s what happens with booty calls. No one ever spends the night.If he truly is your boyfriend and you are in a committed relationship, you should be able to ask him a question like this and expect an answer and not attitude. If you start your relationship holding back asking questions out of fear — then you will be putting yourself in a really bad position for the rest of your relationship.
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