Dear GirlShrink,
How do i know if this guy likes me i really want to know but im afraid to ask. Any tips that i can tell if he likes me back?
Dear Afraid To Ask,
This is one of the most common questions I am asked and the truth is that the “signs” are different for different guys based on their personalities and sometimes based on their age/maturity level. What I do know for sure, is that most women can sense it in their gut when a guy likes them. You can feel when someone is flirting with you, staring at you a little too much, smiling at you more often then other girls, finding ways to spend more time with you, always initiating conversation with you.
On the flip side, we usually know when we like someone and they haven’t necessarily returned those feelings. We keep looking for “signs” but never see them. We keep wondering if we are misreading the signals — but we aren’t. Because the signals are “you are in the friend zone”.
If you really are asking me this question because you have no idea, I would venture to guess that he probably isn’t that interested. If you are looking for validation, because your instincts are telling you that this guy likes you — you’ve got it! Now what are you going to do about it?
