Comments on: How Can I Get My Boyfriend Back? http://askgirlshrink.girlshrink.com/how-can-i-get-my-boyfriend-back/ Free Relationship Advice by Lisa Angelettie MSW Thu, 08 Dec 2011 05:53:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: J. M. Tardy, PHR/MBA http://askgirlshrink.girlshrink.com/how-can-i-get-my-boyfriend-back/comment-page-1/#comment-35 J. M. Tardy, PHR/MBA Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:29:46 +0000 http://askgirlshrink.girlshrink.com/?p=175#comment-35 My heart goes out to the lady who wrote the above letter. She is being forced to "walk-up-out-of-it." She may believe that the hardest thing to do is to walk away from something or someone that you have strong feelings for, but believe me--it's even harder to stay somewhere you are obviously not welcomed. The reader says that it is important to her to have her "friend" back, but there is something that she needs to ask herself. If he was really her friend, would he have treated her the way he did after the break-up? He ignored her during practice, for goodness sakes. Understand this, no good friend would do that. And, who would want to keep bad friends around? I can almost gurantee that her girlfriends have told her the same advice - to move on. Maybe your wisdom (in response to her plea for advice) was the last push that she needed to keep pressing forward. J. M. Tardy Author of His Ingredient Label: A Woman's Guide to Recognizing a Junk Food Man My heart goes out to the lady who wrote the above letter. She is being forced to “walk-up-out-of-it.” She may believe that the hardest thing to do is to walk away from something or someone that you have strong feelings for, but believe me–it’s even harder to stay somewhere you are obviously not welcomed. The reader says that it is important to her to have her “friend” back, but there is something that she needs to ask herself. If he was really her friend, would he have treated her the way he did after the break-up? He ignored her during practice, for goodness sakes. Understand this, no good friend would do that. And, who would want to keep bad friends around? I can almost gurantee that her girlfriends have told her the same advice – to move on. Maybe your wisdom (in response to her plea for advice) was the last push that she needed to keep pressing forward.

J. M. Tardy
Author of His Ingredient Label: A Woman’s Guide to Recognizing a Junk Food Man

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