Have His Cake and Eat It Too!

by Lisa Angelettie MSW

in Relationship Advice

Dear GirlShrink,
My boyfriend of 2 years and a half once asked me to marry him but I told him that I wasn’t ready yet. After how many months he met someone who is younger than us. And then we had this roller coaster relationship. But at some point we managed to solve it. But now, he’s asking me that we should end our relatonship for at least 1 year since its too hard for him to decide and doesn’t know what to do. And for that 1 year I am free to look for someone. But if in that 1 year we realized that we are for each other then we can go on with our relationship and thats the time for him to decide or even marry me. He also said that we can still text each other by means of communication. What is the best thing that I should do?
-anonymous

Dear Friend,
This is short and bitter but: your boyfriend wants a break to run around for a year and do whatever he wants. Leave him alone. It’s over.

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