http://askgirlshrink.girlshrink.com/244/ Free Relationship Advice by Lisa Angelettie MSW Thu, 08 Dec 2011 05:53:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://askgirlshrink.girlshrink.com/244/comment-page-1/#comment-69 MLKing Sat, 24 Apr 2010 11:25:05 +0000 http://askgirlshrink.girlshrink.com/?p=244#comment-69 Good morning, SickAboutIt. Please let me give you some insight about your man. He may be guilt ridden and sick about it to you. The operative phrase here is, "to you." If he was "scared" about his strong feelings then he would either make you feel like the princess in his life and cling to you or run like the wind. The line is a crock of crap. It is used by guys in new relationships to excuse bad behavior. He slept with this woman for good reason--he could and he could get away with it. You are allowing him to do just that. Have respect for yourself and dump him. If he persues you, and I mean really pursues you, then maybe his mea culpas are genuine. If he does it with minimal effort, then you have your answer. Good morning, SickAboutIt. Please let me give you some insight about your man. He may be guilt ridden and sick about it to you. The operative phrase here is, “to you.” If he was “scared” about his strong feelings then he would either make you feel like the princess in his life and cling to you or run like the wind. The line is a crock of crap. It is used by guys in new relationships to excuse bad behavior. He slept with this woman for good reason–he could and he could get away with it. You are allowing him to do just that. Have respect for yourself and dump him. If he persues you, and I mean really pursues you, then maybe his mea culpas are genuine. If he does it with minimal effort, then you have your answer.

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